The One Most Important Thing To Do Now That The Christmas Holiday Is Behind You

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Now that the Christmas holiday is complete, there is one very important thing you must do. Go through every gift you received and think about whether you love it or not. If you don’t absolutely love it, get rid of it.

I do this every year and it is such a great feeling. In the end I only have gifts I really love (this also means I have fewer of them).

There is nothing worse that adding “stuff” to your life you will never use. Several years ago, I spent some time cleaning out the closets and making piles of things that had to go.  Not surprisingly, some of those items were gifts I had received that I didn’t love. What a waste to have it and never use it. Some I hated, some were just “okay” and others were “well someday I may use this”. Take it from me, you won’t. Get rid of them now.

Once that pile was disposed of, I fell lighter, less cluttered – dare I say less stressed. Maybe it is my age, but I have less desire to keep things I don’t really use. It feels like they are stealing my energy and sapping my strength just for them to be there, or to even have to look at them.

How much money is it costing you to let things hang around you will never use? How much in stress does it cause to move it, store it, trip over it and most importantly, feel guilty for not using it?

You can re-gift those items or better yet, return them to the store they were purchased and get something you really love. Nothing there?  Get cash, save it or spend it on an experience with family or friends. Maybe a combination of both; save most of it and go to lunch with a good friend.

Most people who give gifts want the recipient to enjoy them. If you don’t, thank them nicely and just move on with finding something you do. They wouldn’t be offended because they want you to be happy (or they wouldn’t buy you a gift in the first place!)

Add to your New Year’s to-do list a day to clean out your closets and come back and post how many gifts you found (I bet you will find at least six!) I also will predict once they are gone you will feel like you simplified your life, made a good decision and are happier for it!

Happy Holidays!

5 Important Considerations when Christmas Shopping

As Christmas quickly approaches, many of us scramble to finish or even start our shopping. For some, this is an enjoyable activity done on time each year and for others, not so much.

Here are five important considerations when Christmas shopping:

  1. Consider the recipient’s taste, style and personality. Remember to weigh heavily what this person would like (not necessarily what you would like). Does the recipient have a hobby or favorite activity? Are they an active person who likes the outdoors or a homebody who loves to cook? Do they love books? Self improvement? Like to spend an afternoon doing spa activities at home? Make a list of the things you know that they like and don’t like. Then sit back and review the list. You can utilize web searches to get ideas.
  2. Consider what is going on in the life of the recipient. Are they working a lot of hours? Visiting family more than usual due to illness? Make sure that the gift you select will fit into what is going on in their life. If they love experiences but are just too busy, maybe get them an experience gift only if you can also help them with their day-to-day so they can go and enjoy it. It is great to give somebody a gift that they would love but if they don’t have the time to enjoy it, it can put more focus on what they are dealing with at that point in time. You may want to adjust your ideas based on their present situation.
  3. Consider your own personality. Gifts are very personal items. While you should purchase the gift with the recipient in mind, something way out of character from you would seem, well…odd. The gift should reflect your personality and your relationship to some extent.
  4. Consider your budget. When you sit down to consider various ideas for a gift, don’t leave out the money piece. You need to revisit your holiday budget. Don’t have a budget? Spend some time, sit down and make a list of all the people you are buying for and give some thought to numbers 1, 2 and 3 above. In that context, assign an amount to the item(s). When you go shopping, stick to the budgeted amount. Sometimes when shopping you’ll find the gift you want to buy, but it is much more than your original intention to spend.  That is when you need to step back and find another option. It doesn’t mean you have to abandon your gift idea, but find another way to do it.
  5. Consider what is going on in your life. Once you have made your list and set your budget, you should shop for the gift. What time constraints do you have? Typically if you have more time, you can go to a physical storefront and look for bargains.  If you are pressed for time, consider shopping online as shopping in the store when pressed for time typically results in overspending. Online coupons can be found and used to stay within or spend under budget. Many websites have free shipping as well. As it gets closer to Christmas, be aware of deadlines for shipping so that packages will arrive on time for the big day.

The Christmas holiday will go as quickly as it came so make a commitment to start planning on the 26th.  Set a budget for the following year and fit a plan to pay for it into your budget. Pick up Christmas clearance while you can at reduced prices.  One year I purchased an entire Christmas china set with service for 15 for $20 representing 70% off. That was over twenty-five years ago and I still pull out that china to use for Christmas dinner every year.

Christmas is a predictable event in that it happens at the same time every year. Even if you didn’t plan this year, you can change all that in just a few short weeks.

How do you approach Christmas shopping? Share your tips in the comments section.  Happy Holidays!